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Welcome . . .
I met a Mom recently. She attended one of my
programs. By the time the program was finished, her
heart was heavy. She expressed some very common
concerns.
We sat down to chat for a while. The good news is . . .
I told her there is GOOD NEWS.
Here's what we talked about.
Read on . . .
With warm regards,

P.S. Do you have a story on this topic to share? Send
me an email at Linda@LindaHodgdon.com.
Sometimes a good story is what it takes for someone
to really understand.
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The Mom sat intently in my workshop. I watched the
distressed look on her face during most of the
program. When I was done speaking, she came
up and asked to talk to me. We sat down for a
while and chatted.
Mom understood the concept of using visual
strategies. That was not her question. Her concern
was that she felt like it was a "life sentence" for her
son. She was afraid to use visual strategies with her
son because then he would become dependent on
them and he would not grow up to be a "normal" adult.
Fear was mounting
Mom was afraid to start something that would
eventually handicap her son. She couldn't see
beyond that. She saw visual strategies as a "crutch"
or a "penalty" to be avoided at all cost.
It's not really like that
As I talked to Mom she described her son as one of
those who responds to things he can see. In many
other ways he fit the profile. Difficulty attending,
problems following directions, a variety of challenges
with communication, behavior and social situations.
She could see his strengths. But these other issues
get in the way of his success. Yet in her heart, she
could see his capabilities.
So what about the visual strategies?
Mom viewed the use of visual strategies as a step
backwards. Using them would make him more
handicapped.
So we talked some more
There is GOOD news here. We are learning some
important information about her son. First, we are
learning about his learning STRENGTHS. How
does he learn best? When he can SEE
information.
- He attends better when there is something to look
at
- He can participate more independently when he
has
some visual cues to help him remember
what to do
- He learns tasks more quickly when we give him
visual information
Here's the question
Do you want your son to be taught in the way he learns
best? Do you want to make learning easier for him?
Or do you want him to struggle harder to try to keep up
with the other students?
To me . . . this is a "no-brainer"
Sometimes people tell me they use this analogy. If
your child had a vision problem, would you make sure
he had glasses to help him see?
If your child had a hearing problem that could be
helped with a hearing aid, would you choose to have
the aid?
Now, what about the child who needs some visual
cues to help him attend and remember and
understand better? Will you choose that option?
And here's another way to look at the
situation
Which child looks more "different"? The one who has
a huge blow up because the routine has
changed, or the one who has a little cue card on
his desk to remind him that something is going to be
special today?
Which child looks more "different"? The one who has
a schedule in his pocket to remind him where to go, or
the one who has an aide following him and guiding
him around all day.
How about this choice. Would you prefer a student
who is ostracized by his peers because he
approaches them inappropriately or one who has
used some visual tools to learn to greet them and
start a conversation in a socially acceptable way?
The long term view
Looking down the road ten or twenty years from now is
not easy. But here is a way to think about the future.
There is a lot that we have to learn in childhood to help
us grow to adulthood. How will this child learn all
those skills most easily?
And another thing to think about
What is the long term goal? The goal is not visual
strategies. How about effective communication.
Effective participation in work and social
activities. Personal organization skills for time
and life management. Visual strategies are tools to
help achieve those goals.
Even in adulthood, visual strategies can
help
I wouldn't manage very well without my calendar and
my day planner. My "things to do" list helps me
remember to stop at the dry cleaners on the way
home. These tools from childhood can morph and
change to become tools for effective adulthood.
So Mom . . . be glad
We have discovered some tools that will make your
son's life much easier . . . much better . . . more
productive. Please be glad.
Copyright © 2008 Linda Hodgdon
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| About Linda |
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Linda Hodgdon, M.Ed., CCC-SLP is a Speech-
Language Pathologist and a Consultant for Autism
Spectrum Disorders. She is the author of the
bestseller, Visual Strategies for Improving
Communication, one of the most recommended
books in the field of autism.
Internationally recognized as a powerful and
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